Master Rigger

Naka Akira.

That's all that needs to be said. See his work HERE .

I like Rigging for it's creative artistry. It's poetry with rope. Sex in a web. Hot. Makes my clit throb!

Where you lose me (instantly) is with flogging and whipping. I don't find it sexy, at all. Can I watch it. Sure. Does it make me horny. No.

I don't find putting physical pain unto someone else, sexy. Even if pain is how they orgasm, I still don't find it sexy. Perhaps it's because pain is easy. I can grab a titanium bat and make you cry just the same. So what. How is that hot?

I've been whipped, electively. Had a partner (and Rigger) for a while, and tried hard to understand the lure and repeat of being smacked around. I just couldn't. My partner, the Rigger, in that adventure died in 2010. (I could write a book on this guy, but won't.)

Sex is no longer gratifying for me without a deep penetrating psychological pull, thrust, connection.

It turns me on to get in your head. This isn't exactly a secret.

Shibari, for me, is art. And as can be expected many in the S&M/B&D scene will scream "Poser" without the whips and chains, but Shibari, is to my understanding, the act of binding. Yes?

Bound sex is hot. Can be hot.

[Note: All acts by consenting adults.]

It's just not sexy (to me) seeing anyone get hit.

Although,

I always welcome a challenge.

It is my line of thought if you can stand a foot away from someone, without threats, and still get them to do your sexual bidding, that is a sign of true dominance over another human being.

Perhaps you could talk me into it, bridle me with lyrical verbiage into getting whipped.

Maybe I can talk a straight guy into putting a dick in his mouth.

Wait. Did I say maybe?