Reddit. Single female. Sex.

I wonder if people would ask questions about what it's like being a single female in today's lifestyle sex scene for the past decade (plus.)

I wonder if people are curious about the offers, the games, the play, the adventures, the risks, the rewards, the dangers, the personas, combining it all with family, friends, work, and real world dating and sex...

And,

How it's affected me as a woman, and human being.

After all, sex was never a career. Just a curiosity that took on a life if it's own.

I wonder if people care how it began (with me), and how I think it will end.

I wonder if people really want to hear the answers?

To quote a very famous sexually liberated woman,

"I've been things, seen places."

Then again,

I'm a little different than the average single female in this arena. For me, it really is just sex.

Thick-skinned  (or so I think)

But,

Even I've seen things that put me off sex... once for an entire year.

I'll get tested at anyone's request even if I just was.

I recently had a conversation with a man in the lifestyle who didn't want to get tested. He took great offense at the the suggestion we do so before having sex. His reaction upset me so severely I lost all desire. It's still gone. I'm still mad. Why would you object to getting testing? I'd rather work, and masturbate, than deal with that kind of grief.

And as amusing as it is listening to speculations and pop culture psychology of why any woman would willingly engage in such lifestyle,

Fact is,

There's not as much casual sex going on as you might think there is.

People want commitments and relationships.

I just want you to be tested... Aaaand we'll go from there.